Thursday, January 24, 2008

Foolishness and Love – Is there a correlation?

I was at the Salt Lake City airport the other day and while waiting to board my plane I noticed that I was sitting directly behind a young Indian couple who seemed to be in their 20s. While this normally may have been insignificant event, it wasn’t in this case due to what happened. From all appearances they seemed like a couple in love. Within 5 minutes of sitting there, I had already concluded that the girl loved to talk and the guy was extremely quiet as I don‘t believe I heard him mention more than 2 words the entire time we were sitting there. Initially she was talking normal to him in Hindi and English and then she decided he must hear the song she had written for him. Here I was sitting there minding my own business while eating my parfait, when this girl started to sing to him. I had to control myself with great difficulty as I was afraid I was going to start laughing out loud. I mean come on, you happen to be at the airport. Granted that she was singing in Hindi and probably thought that no one could understand her or maybe she just didn’t care, the fact still remains that there were other people there who could understand her. Just imagine if I had started laughing out loud after hearing her song, how she would have felt then.

This incident made me wonder if people who are in ‘love’ are really oblivious to the world around them and simply just do not care what people think. I mean it didn’t seem to matter to the girl one whit that the guy to whom she was serenading to didn’t even react to the song. I concluded the guy’s behavior to as being embarrassed of her actions; my guess would be that he was just dumbfounded and thinking what the hell is wrong with her…LOL. I for one just had to get up and walk away so I won’t be rude and start laughing right there.

When I described this incident to someone this morning, they thought it was rather romantic of the girl to sing to the guy. Now, don’t get me wrong as I’m as romantic as the next person….some people would argue this claim but that is neither here nor there at the moment…..I thought she was being plain silly to behave like this in public. So this difference of opinion is making me question if all people who are in love behave like fools? I mean is there really a correlation between behaving foolishly and being in love? Is acting in a rather foolish manner a requirement for people in love? All in all, I want someone to tell me what the hell is wrong with the people in this world???? Oh well, screw it all I say because the girl did make this trip rather interesting and provided entertainment for me what otherwise would have been a rather tedious wait.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think this girl's actions were good for two reasons. They were good for their relationship because she looks like she's in love and she's expressing her love to her significant other which make for a healthy relationship. The other reason her actions were good is that she was providing great entertainment for onlookers. Whether ur desi or non-desi i'm sure anyone in earshot must've gotten a good laugh out of it. I'd pick this over a baby crying on an airport. That drives me nuts!

Anonymous said...

My other question is, didn't the couple notice u there? u obviously look desi so didn't the girl stop singing when she saw you???

Anonymous said...

I was not the only desi present there; there was a desi guy there who is from Bangalore and he looks more desi than I do. So, to answer your question, I suppose she just didn't care.

I do agree that it was a good entertainment.

GRADE XIII said...

Everyone in love behaves like a fool.